The goal for parenting teenagers is not to exert more control, but rather, to encourage self-control. Learning the art of self-discipline is an integral step on the path to inter-dependence. Yet, the behavioural discipline of ‘manners’ (the practical outworking of morals) can sometimes be hit and miss during the teen years. As such, many parents try to ‘manage’ teenage behaviour, but using the same techniques you did when they were children, you may find your pursuits are largely unfruitful. For teens to successfully move from dependence to inter-dependence, then situational-awareness, self-discipline and self- motivation are required.
